I think they did too.I think they talked about this quite some time back
I think they did too.
It's a tough way to go. It took my mom. She had 7 kids and didn't know she had any before it finally took her out. For about the last two years she knew e were friendly faces but had no idea she had kids. She used to think I was her husband (my dad), her father, and her cousin depending what moment she was in. When I visited (often) she cried when I had to leave. She was left terrified not to have one of the "friendly" faces around.
It was bad for us. But awful for her.